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Gaslighting And Addiction

OC Revive Clinical Team6 min read

Gaslighting is when someone pushes you to doubt your memory or what you saw. It often shows up alongside addiction, and admissions can help you figure out the next step.

What Gaslighting Is

Gaslighting is a pattern of behavior that makes you doubt your memory, your feelings, or what you saw happen. The person may deny a conversation took place, blame you for their behavior, or tell you that you're imagining things.

One bad argument isn't gaslighting. What makes it gaslighting is that the pattern repeats, and each time you come away less sure of what you know.

How Gaslighting And Substance Use Connect

Some people start drinking or using drugs to quiet the confusion after months of being told they imagined things. Others get blamed for their use, even when someone else is buying the substance, hiding it, or pushing it on them.

OC Revive treats substance use and mental health together in one outpatient plan at 23726 Birtcher Dr in Lake Forest. You can attend partial hospitalization (PHP), intensive outpatient (IOP), Evening IOP, or a lighter outpatient (OP) schedule, and you go home each night.

What To Do If This Is Happening

Write down the date and what was said, and keep that note somewhere the other person can't see or change it. Then tell someone who wasn't part of the argument, so you can hear the story told back in your own words.

If you're in immediate danger, call 911. If you're in a mental health crisis or having thoughts of suicide, call or text 988 to reach the Suicide & Crisis Lifeline.

To ask about treatment in Lake Forest, call admissions at (800) 808-6757.

If The Person Who Needs Care Is A Teen

OC Revive's Lake Forest program is outpatient treatment for adults, with PHP, IOP, and Evening IOP. If a teen needs a specialty program, admissions can refer your family to one that fits.

You don't need to have every detail before you call, because admissions will tell you what information they need next.

What Admissions Can Check

Admissions can check your benefits before you start, but your insurer makes the final coverage decision, and benefits vary by plan.

Ask whether PHP or IOP is the better fit, and whether you should go to a sober home or a detox partner first.

Call (800) 808-6757 to talk with admissions about your next step.

Need support now?

OC Revive admissions answers 24/7 for a confidential conversation about outpatient treatment in Lake Forest, including care for substance use and mental health together.

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